Hi I'm Michelle
Welcome to LOUDER GIRL! I created this community for me and you, for us.
I was told to be a successful woman meant to be a good girl, to be quiet and small and take care of others. I drank the Kool-aid for three decades and then...
No More.
When I share my story, women respond with “I thought I was the only one.” You’re not.
I see you. I hear you.
We see you. We hear you.
The truth is when we come together and share our stories, when we empathize with each other, we transform ourselves, each other, and the world.
We are stronger together. Let’s get loud!


ONCE UPON A TIME...
- I married a handsome, successful man.
- We had two healthy, lovely daughters.
- Our home was in a good school district.
- We drove luxury and safe cars.
- I worked at UC San Diego as a director of community health projects.
- We had personal computers.
- We had money in the bank, and retirement accounts.
We were living the American Dream...
...UNTIL
When you don’t pay attention, the universe screams at you until you listen.
- I had a business trip where I thought I was going to die on the plane leaving my daughters motherless.
- I was diagnosed with PTSD.
- My oldest (age 8) having a ruptured appendix that was so bad, she almost had sepsis.
- My daughter’s ruptured appendix was my wakeup call. I could no longer live the unconscious life I was living.
- I separated from and divorced my husband.
WHY LOUDER GIRL?
I founded the LOUDER GIRL community for us.
The benefits of joining the sisterhood are:
- Thrive in a community where you belong.
- Feel and live in hope.
- Rediscover what lights you up--and let it lead.
- Heal the wounds that have silenced you.
- Discover ways to practice self-devotion.
- Live up to your full potential.
- Make a powerful difference.
- Have fun. Play.